But can straight white guys experience the same easy sexual fluidity, or would kissing a guy just mean that they are really gay? Not Gay thrusts deep into a world where straight guy-on-guy action is not a myth but a reality: there’s fraternity and military hazing rituals, where new recruits are made to grab each other’s penises and stick fingers up their fellow members’ anuses online personal ads, where straight men seek other straight men to masturbate with and, last but not least, the long and clandestine history of straight men frequenting public restrooms for sexual encounters with other men. A straight white girl can kiss a girl, like it, and still call herself straight-her boyfriend may even encourage her.
